A few years ago
the George Barna research group conducted a series of studies aimed
at answering a troubling question in Christianity today. Namely, why
are young people leaving the church? The research found that 59% of
young Christians disconnect either permanently or for an extended
period of time from church life after age 15. Why? This is a
question that no doubt haunts the minds of many Christian adults, in
particular the parents of the kids who are within this 59th
percentile, some of whose children never return to the faith of their
youth. Does scripture reveal any insight into this issue? I believe
that it does.
But first, a
caveat. I firmly believe that the answer to every question we ever
raise among ourselves can be found by laying a foundation of biblical
truth. However, in this particular case, after laying that
foundation I believe the question at hand requires a certain amount
of speculation, logic, and historical perspective to arrive at an
answer. I believe this because on some level this question addresses
issues unique to our time and culture which the bible does not
specifically speak to. Make no mistake. I am not hinting that we
turn to a source other than the word of God to seek answers to the
questions of life. What I am saying is that sometimes, as in this
case, the bible provides the root or nucleus of the issue or problem.
It is then up to us as students of scripture to take that kernel of
truth and extrapolate it out into specific application.
In answering this
question I will be making an assumption. The assumption is that we
are talking about a real renunciation of faith here. Although there
could be tangential aspects of this issue such as someone leaving for
a season of sin and then repenting and returning, which the Barna
group admittedly included in their rather alarming statistic, I am
intentionally avoiding such in my thoughts here. I am dealing
strictly with the issue of a young person, raised in a Christian
home, who becomes an adult and subsequently leaves the church, in the
sense that he or she no longer professes Christ, if they ever did,
and proceeds to live a lifestyle of carnality and worldliness alien
to biblical Christianity for a prolonged period of time. With that
being said, my response as to why this happens is actually very
simple to state, although I will spend some time developing it with
scripture. In short, I believe young people, or people of any age,
who repudiate Christianity and leave the church always do so because
they were never genuine believers in the first place. I will present
my statement for this position as a series of interconnected building
blocks which, when stacked atop each other, will serve to support the
structure of my argument.
The first
component, or building block, is the biblical doctrine of eternal
security. This doctrine teaches that salvation is a free gift from
God, and once granted to a believer, cannot be lost by any means.
The scriptural support for this belief is overwhelming. Jesus, in
John 10:27-29 refers to Himself as a shepherd with sheep who hear his
voice, recognize Him as their shepherd, and follow Him. He goes on
to teach that nothing can snatch His sheep out of His hand. Building
on this concept we see first Paul in Ephesians 4:30 refer to
Christians as sealed for the day of redemption, and then Jude in Jude
24 reveal that believers are kept from stumbling by God so that He
can present us blameless to Himself. If it was possible to lose
one's salvation then how could one be sealed until the day of
redemption, which obviously refers to the end times when Christ will
return and set up His kingdom and ultimately judge the nations of the
world? If the capacity to lose one's salvation was in Paul's mind
then he should have phrased it as “sealed until the day of
rejection, or sinning, or falling away. Furthermore, who does the
sealing? The implication is one of “being sealed” by something
outside of ourselves rather than we being responsible for our own
sealing, which just wouldn't make any logical sense. Jude reinforces
this with his writing that it is God Himself who keeps us from
stumbling, for His own purposes.
Paul slips in
another facet of this idea of eternal security in his letter to the
church at Philippi. In verse 6 of chapter 1 he tells the church that
God, who had already begun a good work in them will bring that work
to completion at the day of Jesus Christ. What is this work that God
had begun in the Philippian church? It was to make them partners or
participants in the gospel, as revealed in verse 5. Some would say
that based on the context and various clues revealed throughout this
letter that what Paul had in mind here was financial partnership.
This may be so, but the question of exactly what form the partnership
took is irrelevant for this discussion. The reason is that
regardless of exactly what Paul had in view when he wrote those
words, participation of any sort in the ministry of the gospel such
that warrants praise from an Apostle of Jesus Christ indicates the
presence of true believers and authentic disciples of Christ.
Therefore, his statement that God would bring this work to completion
clinches the Philippian church's ultimate success in staying true to
Christ.
If there was
still any doubt about the veracity of this doctrine, Romans 8:38-39
soundly trounces any and all objections:
For I am
convinced that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor
principalities, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers,
nor height, nor depth, nor any other created thing, will be able to
separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.
Paul
is blatantly covering all of his bases here in making sure that
nothing is left out as a potential antagonist who can separate us
from the inheritance that we have in Jesus. He gives an exhaustive
list of things temporal and spiritual. But then, as if to anticipate
and silence objections, he follows his list with the phrase “nor
any other created thing”. It's as if he's saying, in effect, “My
list is quite complete, but just in case some of you want to try to
poke holes in it, allow me to seal the deal by including a blanket
statement which covers anything I might have missed.” And since
everything apart from God falls under the category of a created
thing, Paul is literally saying “everything”. Now, if nothing
that exists can come between us and the love of God, why would we
imagine that our pitiful sinful attempts to divorce ourselves from
our Lord could possibly ever work?
Now
then, this teaching on eternal security must be accompanied by an
additional point. This will serve as the second building block of my
overall argument for why young people leave the church. Namely, if
eternal security is true then why does the bible warn so adamantly
against apostasy? Doesn't the fact that apostatizing is even brought
up an evidence for the fact that we can in fact lose our salvation?
Before I answer that, we need to define the word so that we are clear
on its meaning. Apostasy simply means the abandonment or
renunciation of a religious or political belief. It is the
theological term for exactly what we are discussing here, that of
walking away from or abandoning Christianity.
An
example of a passage of scripture which might cause us to scratch our
heads would be 1 Corinthians 15:1-2:
Now I make
known to you, brethren, the gospel which I preached to you, which
also you received, in which also you stand, by which also you are
saved, if you hold fast the word which I preached to you, unless you
believed in vain.
Contrary to what opponents of eternal security might endorse, this
passage does not teach that Christians can lose their salvation. If
it does then Paul was insane and didn't even know his own mind.
Furthermore, since according to 2 Peter 1:20-21, the authors of
scripture were empowered by the Holy Spirit and wrote in such a way
that it was breathed out by God (2 Timothy 3:16), then in addition to
Paul being off his rocker so is God. Because you can't say in one
passage that nothing can separate us from the love of God and then
turn around in another letter and say that “oh, by the way, you are
capable of doing it yourself.” That simply doesn't hold logical
water. Furthermore, the statement that Paul makes here in 1
Corinthians is quite correct. If one was to stop holding fast to the
word of God, and by implication separate themselves from their
relationship with Him, then yes they would in fact have believed in
vain. But a philosophical statement that is technically accurate
does not necessarily make it a fact. I can state that if I was to
leap off of a bridge and provide enough aerodynamic lift to my body
then I would be able to fly without that statement having any basis
in reality.
And besides, I don't believe that Paul was actually making the
statement that if it were possible to fall away from Christ then
belief would have been in vain. I think Paul was getting at another
angle. Namely that there were those in the Corinthian church he was
writing to who had made professions of faith but were not authentic
disciples of Christ. We see this reality evidenced in Jesus's
Earthly ministry when, in John chapter 6 He taught the Jews about His
deity represented in a reference to Himself as the bread which came
down out of heaven. In response to this teaching the scripture says
in verse 66 “As a result of this many of His disciples withdrew and
were not walking with Him any more.” There is very clearly a
possibility of people expressing faith in Christ that is not genuine
and eventually revealing their true colors when the proverbial push
comes to shove. The Apostle John makes this even more blunt in 1
John 2:19 where he says the following:
They went out
from us, but they were not really of us; for if they had been of us
they would have remained with us; but they went out, so that it would
be shown that they all are not of us.
This
verse requires no explanation. You can't really state this point any
clearer than John did in his epistle. And
I haven't even touched on the example of Judas Iscariot, perhaps the
ultimate example of how apostasy works. It is no less than a
biblical reality that sometimes people who profess to be Christians
are really not and prove it
by walking away from the church.
In
addition to this apostatizing that goes on, there is another element
we see in scripture of this type of false Christianity. That is the
teaching of the visible and invisible church. This pattern of
thought has its roots as far back as the writings of Augustine in the
4th
century A.D. but it was brought into full prominence in the
reformation, principally due to the efforts of John Calvin to express
it. The idea is that there is a visible church, comprised of the
formal institution on Earth which preaches the gospel. There is also
the invisible church, which is made up of the elect, who are known
only to God. All who are in the invisible church are in the visible
church. But not all who are a part of the visible church are also
members of the invisible church. Augustine and later Calvin didn't
just make this stuff up out of their heads. They got it right from
the teachings of Jesus Himself.
The
parable of the tares among the wheat found in Matthew 13:24-30
presents a reality that is exactly what the doctrine of the visible
and invisible church is intended to convey. Namely, that there are
unbelievers, or tares,
mixed in among the believers, or
the wheat in this context.
These unbelievers are left in place by God so that His children will
not be disrupted. Then at
the judgment God will separate the tares from the wheat, the
unbelievers from the believers, the visible church from the invisible
church. Again, this is exactly the point that Paul was making back
in 1 Corinthians when he referred to vain belief. And it's the same
point that John was expounding in 1 John. There is a remarkable
symmetry to the teaching found on this topic throughout scripture.
And it should make us realize that, in the words of Bilbo Baggins,
“not all that glitters is gold”.
With these points
being made and building off of each other a picture is emerging of
young people, raised in Christian homes, perhaps making expressions
of faith as children, who then grow up and abandon the religion of
their parents as adults in a classic modern day example of biblical
apostasy. But why does it seem so prevalent at this point in
American history that it is occurring in such large numbers? Why
aren't these young tares just staying in among the wheat as in the
parable? I believe to answer that we need to go back in time and
take a brief look at the culture in which the United States was
founded.
Peruse the
writings of almost any of our founding fathers, their personal
letters, their newspaper articles, their political documents, etc.
and you will notice an overwhelming trend. Repeatedly, the men who
founded this country echoed a similar sentiment; that we have a
creator and that the Christian religion in its focus on worshiping
Him is the only source of a moral society. Furthermore, such a moral
society is absolutely necessary for the pursuit of liberty to succeed
in a nation. Said another way, these men, by and large, believed
that religion and morality were the two fundamental foundations upon
which they sought to build a country. Even the ones who were not
followers of Christ, such as Benjamin Franklin, still held the bible
in high regard as the only source of absolute truth. Franklin
himself, who some historical revisionists would claim was a staunch
Atheist, in an address before the Constitutional Convention in
Philadelphia, urged the congress of this young nation to institute a
policy of public prayer each morning before they began their work for
the day for the express purpose of asking for God's help, a practice
which is still in effect to this day over two hundred years later.
And this was one of the least religious of the founding fathers
making this request. It was this cultural mindset they took when
approaching the daunting task of drafting a Constitution for the
governance of the United States. Although the Constitution itself
does not overtly reference God or Christianity, they form the warp
and the woof of its essence. And make no mistake, these men were by
no means aberrations. They represented the thread of common thought
in the populace of the colonies at that time.
This was so
because of the men and women who were the forefathers of our founding
fathers; the Pilgrims and Puritans. These were groups of people who
were deeply committed Christians with a comprehensive biblical world
view which informed every area of their lives. While by no means
being perfect, they were true believers and followers of Jesus who
saw as their mission in life the laying of a framework of religious
belief in this country that their descendants could use to pursue
lives of religious freedom which would honor God. These pioneers saw
themselves as stepping stones upon whose backs future generations
could walk to glory. In the opening of the Mayflower Compact, the
first political document enacted in North America, they penned the
following words...
In the name of
God, Amen. We, whose names are underwritten, the loyal subjects of
our dread Sovereign Lord King James, by the Grace of God, of Great
Britain, France, and Ireland, King, defender of the Faith, etc.
Having undertaken, for the Glory of God, and advancement of the
Christian faith and honor of our King and Country, a voyage to plant
the first colony in the Northern parts of Virginia...
These were people
who were serious indeed about their religion. So serious in fact,
that they endured the death of about half their population during
their first winter in the new world. In the words of William
Bradford, the governor of the Plymouth colony of Pilgrims for 30
years...
“...they
cherished a great hope and inward zeal of laying good foundations, or
at least of making some way towards it, for the propagation and
advance of the gospel of the kingdom of Christ in the remote parts of
the world, even though they should be but stepping stones to others
in the performance of so great a work.”
It was because of this intense devotion and single minded zeal for
the increase of the glory of God that the colonies which would come
to be known as the United States of America were steeped in that high
regard for biblical truth, morality, and ethics as well as the
creator God who fashioned them that the founding fathers, as
mentioned earlier, espoused in their writings and speeches. This
resulted in an interesting situation in which Christianity became
normative. And not legislated morality or enforced state religion
such as the Roman Catholic church practiced. Rather, it was a
normative Christianity born of internal morality and desire. This
sounds rather idyllic doesn't it? There's just one glaring problem.
It doesn't sync with the biblical record at all.
You see, the Bible paints a picture of a small number of true
believers who are mixed in among a populace of those who are opposed
to God. This was so even in Israel, a nation with a theocratic
government which enjoyed having their system of religion interwoven
into their governmental structure. Isaiah 10:20-22 refers to a
faithful remnant who would return to the land and rely on the Lord.
And when Elijah was feeling depressed because of the opposition he
was experiencing from Jezebel the Lord told him the following: “Yet
I will leave 7,000 in Israel, all the knees that have not bowed to
Baal and every mouth that has not kissed him.”
Jesus told of this same
principle of remnants, small numbers, and exclusivity in Matthew
7:13-14: “Enter through the narrow gate; for the gate is
wide and the way is broad that leads to destruction, and there are
many who enter through it. For the gate is small and the way is
narrow that leads to life, and there are few who find it.” The
Bible never discusses those whom God saves as being the majority,
except for future fulfillment prophecies of the time when He will
restore the fortunes of the nation of Israel as a whole. So, it
simply does not fit with the biblical precedent that suddenly, in
America, things would be radically different just because the country
was founded upon biblical standards. It
follows then that the only
logical conclusion is that throughout the history of the United
States there were many who claimed to be in the invisible church but
who were in reality solely members of the visible church.
How does this relate to the issue
at hand today of young Christians walking away from the faith? I
believe the numbers of authentic disciples of Jesus were not
substantially different two hundred years ago than they are today.
Obviously, there is no way to quantify this. But I believe the
evidence from God's word supports this notion. The
difference today is that, starting with the publication of the Origin
of Species in 1859, moving to the secularization of American
universities in the late 19th
century, continuing
on into the 20th
with Nietzsche's
notion of “killing God”, proceeding from there into the removal
of prayer from public schools, and culminating in the legalization of
abortion and same sex marriage in some states, our country has
systematically dismantled the notion of normative Christianity that
we once had. And the removal of that idea, flawed though the idea
may have been, has removed whatever social stigma that may have
existed in our past
over the notion of abandoning the Christian religion. Said more
bluntly, nowadays no one cares about dropping their faith like a bad
habit. On the surface this appears particularly alarming to those
who are truly born again, clinging to godly principles in a country
gone mad with sin and depravity. But it's really just the removing
of the veil of falsehood and of the visible church that once draped
our country.
Some may take this argument of mine
and become depressed by it. I choose to take a different view. I
believe that rather than being a cause for alarm we can take solace
in the fact that God is
still on His throne, He is still sovereign, and He is still
graciously saving just as
many people today
as ever.
It may seem like less. But we have been living in shades of gray
for the past two hundred plus years. It was these murky areas on the
borders of black and white that caused Jonathan Edwards, even in the
midst of the so called Great Awakening in the mid 1700s, to utter
these scathing words in his first sermon to his church in
Northampton, Massachusetts:
There have been few places that
have enjoyed such eminent powerful means of grace as you of this
place have enjoyed. You have lived all your days under a most clear,
convincing dispensation of God's word. The whole land is full of
gospel light, but this place has been distinguishingly blessed of God
with excellent means for a long time under your now deceased
minister.
And it argues a dismal degree of
obduracy and blindness, that persons could stand it out under such a
ministry. In what a clear and awakening manner have you hundreds of
times had your danger and misery in a natural condition set before
you! How clearly have you had the way of salvation shown to you, and
how movingly have you had the encouragements of the gospel offered to
you!
Such as can live all their days
under such means of awakening and of conversion, and have stood it
out and have been proof against such preaching, are undoubtedly of
exceeding hard hearts. They that are still unawakened, doubtless
their hearts are much harder than if they had not lived under such
great advantages. Powerful preaching, if it don't awaken, it hardens
more than other preaching.
Those means are now gone; you'll
have them no more. You have stood it out until the bellows are
burnt. You had the preaching, the calls and warnings of your eminent
deceased minister till he was worn out in calling and warning and
exhorting of you. God was so gracious, and so loathe that you should
perish, that he continued his ability of preaching to wonderment.
But the founder melted in vain as to you. He did not cease blowing
till the bellows were worn out, as it were burnt out, in vain, trying
if he could not extract some true silver from
amongst the lead. He was very loathe to give you over till he had
persuaded, and God seemed loathe to give you over by continuing of
him so long to call upon you and warn you. But how many wicked are
there that are not yet plucked away?
And lest anyone think that this was
only the condition of his congregation prior to the Great Awakening
of the 1730s, Edwards had this to say a short time after that great
spiritual upswing:
In the latter part of May, it
began to be very sensible that the Spirit of God was gradually
withdrawing from us, and after this time Satan seemed to be more
let loose, and raged in a dreadful manner.
The
face of nominal Christianity, or Christianity in name only, was one
that Jonathan Edwards was well familiar with. And it is the same
face that rears its ugly head once again in the early days of the
21st
century. It is a face that, at this point in history is clearing
away those shades of gray that had Edwards and other pastors of his
era preaching to churches full of carnal, spiritually dead sinners.
It is now revealing in ever greater numbers the true face of
Christianity, as the faithful remain while the pretenders fall away.
It is this reason more than any other superficial socio-political
issues which the problem may be ascribed to by studies and
researchers that is causing our young people to walk away from the
church in numbers greater than we have ever seen.